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Friday, January 14, 2005

everything in this world is created by confidence and action

perasaan ini muncul dengan tiba-tiba... ajaib banget !
perasaan tidak salah, dia akan membuat siapapun yang mengalaminya bahagia,
senang bahkan merasa sedih.
perasaan bisa datang dan pergi sesukanya, tapi
bila perasaan dipertahankan ia akan terus ada, tumbuh dan smakin menguat.

tapi.. bila perasaan ajaib ini muncul diantara dua manusia yang telah mempunyai keterikatan hubungan yang ideal haruskah dia dihilangkan? dibunuh atau dipaksa untuk tidak boleh muncul lagi? padahal perasaan yang datang itu telah membuat dua manusia tadi mengakui bila mereka mengalami suatu kebahagiaan hidup yang membuat mereka smakin ceria, saling melengkapi kebersamaan hubungan yang mereka miliki selama ini.

apakah benar perasaan ajaib ini telah membuat kedua manusia tadi tidak setia pada pasangan masing-masing? tapi kedua manusia ini tidak mempermainkan pasangan mereka.
perasaan ajaib ini telah membuat mereka mempunyai suatu special hubungan dalam buaian perasaan yang mucul dari kebersamaan yang membentuk suatu kebahagian terutama saat mereka bersama.

perlahan - lama kelamaan apakah perasaan ini tetap boleh ada ataukah harus dihilangkan?
finally, tergantung kedua manusia tadi. apakah mereka mau terus bahagia lewat perasaan ini?
ataukah cuma ada 1 manusia yang akan menjadi manusi egois dengan mencampakkan perasaan ajaib tadi dan membuat terluka 1 manusia lainnya?
tidak ada yang akan tau, bahkan si perasaaan ajaib tadi!

the real me

"If two people have only one thought between them, something is very wrong."

the perfect present

i can do anything in that city... meet a different people, be a famous author, copywriter and everyday can hunting to all around city.
That's another reason I love New York. Just like that!

You are not my main reason I Love NY. if u like NY too, thats completely reason why i`m still with you.

Thursday, January 13, 2005

"Do we need distance to get close?"

kata ade teman gue... "gue juga suka mikir gitu kok, maybe i always need a distance to get close"
hmmm... setiap kepala punya pendapat yang berbeda untuk ungkapan diatas.
tapi apa yang elu rasain, alamin cuma elu yang tau.

secret garden

She’ll let you in her house
If you come knockin’ late at night
She’ll let you in her mouthIf the words you say are right
If you pay the price
She’ll let you deep inside
But there’s a secret garden she hides
She’ll let you in her car
To go drivin’ round
She’ll let you into the parts of herself
That’ll bring you down
She’ll let you in her heart
If you got a hammer and a vise
But into her secret garden, don’t think twice
You’ve gone a million miles
How far’d you get
To that place where you can’t remember
And you can’t forget
She’ll lead you down a path
There’ll be tenderness in the air
She’ll let you come just far enough
So you know she’s really there
She’ll look at you and smile
And her eyes will say
She’s got a secret garden
Where everything you want
Where everything you need
Will always stay
A million miles away

(Jerry Maguire)

Wednesday, January 12, 2005

life 7

When you were born, you were crying
and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so at the end,
you're the one who is smiling and everyone
around you is crying.

life 6

he brightest future will always
be based on a forgotten past;
you can't go forward in life until
you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

life 5

The happiest of people don't necessarily
have the best of everything;
they just make the most of
everything that comes along their way.

life 4

enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human, and
enough hope to make you happy.

life 3

Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

life 2

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,because it takes
only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.

life 1

When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at
the closed door that we don't see the one
which has been opened for us.

Tuesday, January 11, 2005


Infidelity, or also known as unfaithfulness or even more graphic, betrayal; is a common extramarital problem, which surprisingly happens to a lot of people. Look at those celebrities, politicians, or your next door neighbor, maybe even your parents. According to Ian McNeice, 44% of married men and 32% of married women in the USA have an extramarital affair. Marriage failure rating in the USA is almost 50% and 33% in the UK.
Extramarital affair is not the most favorite subject to be talked about, it is there and everyone aware of it yet everyone choose to keep silent. Because it affects people in different ways, it causes disgust to some but thrill and passion to others. And yes, it happened to almost everyone to some extent in their life. Why people do this anyway, why are they willing to go the extra mile? Is it the carnal passion, forbidden love and secret rendezvous; all of those which can make your heart race even faster than triathlon champion? Or the lovey-dovey, romantic, care and nurturing experience; all of those which you may not receive at home?
It can start anywhere, on anything and all depends on each individual and marriage condition. In this article, I would like to take a glance on how an affair would start generally, and later about emotional feelings occur to people who are involved in an affair. Some of extramarital affairs started because there is no love exists in the relationship. How can this be?
Few reasons on this; one, you married too young; two, you need to make a choice between marriage and abortion; three, you were 'forced' to marry someone, which happens in some culture; four, the most classic reason, you are bored. Either way, there are few 'steps' you are likely to go through when you have an affair.
Step one; this can happen anywhere, at work, at the mall, at fitness centre, on the bus, even on the church. You meet someone who shares same interests or fascinate you in some way and you are getting closer, talk and talk until you feel comfortable. More of this and both of you are eager to know about each other further. There! The emotional bond is formed. Before you realize it, you start to compare them with your partner. You would think that your partner is not as fun, not being as understanding, not as religious, not as attractive and gentle, and suddenly the 'not as' list getting longer. Step two; after you become emotionally attached, you start to feel the need of more physical interaction. This is when you start to think a lot about them, how you can meet as often as you can, how they would think if you do this or that. You are going to work because you want to see them, you imagine them on your side when you're driving to work or when you're sick. You even dress for them. Then on, you start to have dates, lunches and dinners. Step three; suddenly, you realized that he/she is all you wanted; you cared and maybe loved them by now. You share more personal stuff, create fantasies about what you both want to do when you get together (which may never happen). Then maybe you helped their work problem or they suggests good things for your kids. At this step you feel whole lot closer to them. Step four; more physical interaction. Both of you start to have this 'special' way to express your feelings. You are getting comfortable with cuddles and hugs. There's feeling that you are a great pair, inseparable, what a wonderful world if you can be together. Those pair of eyes, those soft hands, the broad shoulder where you can lean on; there's no way you can live without it, after all nobody made you feel good as they does, even your partner. Step five; you think that this is getting too far and people start noticing that you behave differently. You would want this to be a secret; you can't jeopardize your marriage, not now. You know that you want to be together with them but it has to be planned thoroughly, you don't want to hurt anybody. Then, you start to make excuses, invent stories, create secret meetings, and hide your phone bills. This is when infidelity sharpened, you disclose lies and more lies. Last step; both of you finally involved in sexual act. You never had the intention but the 'situation' leads you to it. The infidelity completes.
Look in the mirror; are you standing in any of the step above?

Monday, January 10, 2005

since i dont have you.

Apa kesibukan telah membuatmu lupa.
akan bunga yang hampir saja kau petik karena harumnya?.
Atau purnama yang hampir saja kau peluk.
karena bening cahyanya?
Tolong, jangan biarkan sepi jadi milikku.
Walau kita sama tahu, sepi bisa jadi ramai dalam benak.
Kau adalah sehelai terang yang membuat imajiku melayang tinggi.
Hingga telah kuhabiskan tiga purnama. untuk menasbihkan namamu.
Bahkan kini awan tiada berbentuk lagi.
Sebab telah kuambil sebagian darinya.
Untuk kurajut kujadikan gaun pengantinmu.